The Questionnaire , Part 1

I got one of those "Read then erase my answers, insert your own and send on to 100 of your closest friends" emails the other day. You know the ones I'm talking about. Most of them ask inane questions about what you had for breakfast and when was the last time you cried.

This one was a little different though. I haven't answered it yet, and I know that I won't be sending it out to my '100 closest friends' because typically I abhor those kinds of emails to start with.

But I will answer it. Because it's about sex.

It's a lot of questions, so I'll break it up over the course of the next week or so. But some of them will be quick answers and some won't. Maybe it'll be inspiring to me. Or you.

I guess we'll see....

...go!

Do you masturbate? Uh, yea. Usually at least once a day, sometimes two or three times. Occasionally not at all, but that's pretty rare.

Have you ever masturbated for a partner while they sat and watched? Yes, and it's something that I enjoy when I am comfortable with the person. It's very arousing to share that.

Have you ever wanted to watch a partner masturbate? Yes, and I've asked several of them.

Have you ever had a partner masturbate for you while you sat and watched? Rarely, but I have watched a lover masturbate. I find that there are basically two schools of thought with a very thick line in between. Either men find it highly erotic to be watched, or they are deathly opposed to it. You can guess which kind I find more attractive.

When do you like to watch pornography? It's funny. I don't watch near as much of it as I have in the past. I have a bit on the computer and a few DVDs around. Maybe I should start looking into some classic stuff *smirk* I do enjoy watching porn with a partner and teasing while you watch. That’s not something I’ve gotten to experience very often but when I have, I’ve liked it.

Have you ever used sex toys? You're kidding right? Yes. I own several toys that are purely for sex. A couple of vibrators, a couple of anal plugs and a very special dildo that only comes out for special occasions *grin*. I don't always use a toy when I masturbate, but I do have a Hitachi Magic Wand under my bed, and typically use it if I get off before I go to sleep.

Have you ever stripped for a partner? Once. I would be much more comfortable doing it now. I've tried like hell to get into a strip aerobics class around here but they're always full. I do have Carmen Electra's DVD on the subject and I really should start using it. I also have Sheila Kelley's "The S Factor" book. I didn't used to enjoy having that much attention focused on me, especially when it involved something that felt bad to me, like showing off my body. For some reason, masturbating for someone doesn’t bring up the same feelings for me. Maybe because it’s more about sex than it is about me.

To be continued …