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Another interesting site that I found (where I could actually quote quite a few things, but we'll start with just this one), was called "Firmly and Fondly", and it was strictly about domestic discipline relationships. While I don't nearly agree with everything on the website, the guy has got some incredible points, and some good quotes, including this one:

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Robin Skynner quotes a question to his wife and her response:
Why is it that you want us to go after you so hard and really pin you against the wall?
And she said, "Well, can't you see?" - Very impatiently - "can't you see? It's obvious. When you do that we come into our own. We don't have to worry. We can use our energy and aggression and be what we really are and not worry about whether you can take it or not. We become totally free."

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Well no fucking shit.

Ever have one of those moments, where the obvious smacks you in the forehead?
I did. When I read that.